Bro, after you’ve slept with a woman and she’s wanting an exclusive relationship with you, one of the things they ALL do is to slowly change you into a Beta.
Have you ever lost a girl in the past because you allowed your ex to change your “bad habits/behaviors”, you made the transition, but she no longer desired you?
Well, that’s a pattern that almost all women unconsciously do to their men.
The storyline is always like this:
Stage one:
– Girl met you as an Alpha man who can does a lot of great things
– You were hot, sexy, strong, dominant, assertive like a superhero leader. You have a lot of girls options, you have adventurous fun in life, you take action daily to live your dream life.
– Girl slept with you, you two had crazy sex for a few weeks/months, you started to fall in love with her.
– After 3-12 months, girl wanted something serious and exclusive with you. You love her a lot and you accept that offer.
– You two now are an official couple. You two always do things together. There’s no more individual times anymore.
Stage two:
– Now that she got to know you. She found that you have many “character flaws”, she asks you why you always have to fight evil? Train so hard to prove yourself as an alpha? Why always looking for improvement? Why can’t you just relax and accompnay with her at home watching TV? What can’t you become mature and take care more of her needs?
– You think she is right, you should be more mature and stop being so carefree and playing so much. You start to change.
– You listen to her advice on your style, you stop seeing your bros, you stop working so hard on your dream, you tell other girls that you are unavailable, you spend more time with her doing things she likes, and she is HAPPY every time when you make changes for her.
Stage three:
– However, you start to feel that the more you change your old self for her, the more other stuff she finds to complains about you. It feels like it’s never-ending.
– You find that the more alike you two are, the less she seems to wants to fvck, and it seems “something is missing in the r/p”, but you think that’s what every couple experience.
Such emptiness can lasts for a few months, few years, or even some decades…but the ending is almost always the same…
Ending:
– One day you came home. You discovered that some dude was fvcking your girl and you were shocked. You were pissed and you started to argue with her. She blamed you for not being attractive anymore. You felt hurt because you thought “changing for her is what makes her happy”.
OR any similar scenario that is less intense but you discovered you got cheated.
Well bro, the takeaway is:
No matter what relationship you have with women, they always have a conscious/unconscious need to CHANGE YOU.
If you allow that to happen because you don’t want to argue/you want to make her happy/you think you’ll have more passionate sex later, you will be wrong because you’re actually becoming a Beta guy that women won’t find sexually attractive.
Women love to fix you, women love broken men, women love you to change for them. But even when they say they’re happy at the moment, they will change their mind when they discover that “they suddenly lose their feeling with you”.
Never change for her bro. All the changes must be for yourself, not her.
Otherwise, be prepared to have a boring sex life and get cheated!