分類: 兩性智慧

How’s your Chinese New Year so far?

Are you being a “good husband/bf” accompanying your wife/gf to greet some unknown relatives that you don’t care about to get some red packet money?

Well, it’s totally fine to say hi, pretend to be interested in them and get maybe $20 from strangers,

but are you doing sth that you don’t want but succumb to your girl’s will just to please her?

More importantly, do you sincerely believe that being loyal to girls will create attraction that eventually makes her want to fvck you?

#1 Most beta men believe that their faithfulness/loyalty to women can somehow exchange her sexual desire and love.

While it might true that women will “like” your unconditional love & attention, loyalty/faith will NEVER create sexual desire or urge for her to fvck you.

Why do women actually NOT want her to be your only choice of sexual options?

It is because women ALWAYS want a man that other women want

AND your fvcking absolute faithfulness SCREAMS that you actually lack other sexual options

AND you chose her only because you couldn’t get other girls! (which is true to over 80% of any current relationships)

So what should you do to be more attractive if you are single now or are already in a relationship?

#2 If you are starting out, you should ALWAYS aim to have multiple (5-10 min.) potential women to flirt, date and fvck.

You need this to build your confidence around women so that eventually you can truly believe that “I am the man who always has options with women.”

Until you do that and stop being so loyal at the beginning, women can almost always sense that you are a desperate beta who lacks options.

#3 If you are in a relationship and your gf is treating you like shit and not giving you sex on demand, break the fvck up.

I guarantee you that you have fvcked things up along the way and have been tolerating her bullshit behaviors,

that’s why you are being treated like a fvcking slave holding bags for her and getting annoying complains all day long.

It’s almost impossible to change that if you keep giving her UNDESERVING ATTENTION, so drop her and get a better girl.

#4 The point of today is that: Faithfulness to women will NOT create genuine sexual desire for her to fvck you.

Your faithfulness MUST be earned.

And it must be earned through a PROCESS,

where you date & sleep with a ton of women, KEEP only the best of the best, and from that reality, you maybe CHOOSE to be faithful to a few of them.

And even if ultimately you choose to be faithful to one (monogamous),

you MUST always have a solid mindset that “Even if I choose to be with her for now, I always have other women I could date & fvck at any time.”

That’s the key to HER attraction to you.

So be faithful to your own self, NOT her.

Give her attention ONLY IF she deserves it.

(If you want to know more skills on how to do so, go to www.manthefvckup.com/7dayfreecourse to study it. It’s FREE.)

Whether you are single now or in a long term relationship, brother, do you feel that you need women/your gf/your wife MORE THAN they need you?

If your answer is anything similar to “I can’t live without her”, you are a fvcking beta. Period.

I know it is harsh and I know you don’t want to hear this,

but the truth is that in whatever relationships you have with women, you can NEVER be the one who NEEDS her more than she needs you.

Why?

Because #1 Women NEVER want a man who NEEDS her to survive, to thrive, or to be happy.

A man who can’t function or succeed without women is a WEAK BETA male that will be ELIMINATED by harsh realities and women don’t want weak pussies.

You need her more than she needs you?

She will conclude that you are a needy rubbish that she never want to fvck.

#2 No matter what women SAY in their mouth, it is a feminine women’s NATURE to want a more DOMINANT masculine guy to lead the relationship.

A man who takes major control is the man her biology is programmed to fvck.

If your behaviors signal “I need you baby, please approve me”, you are doomed to maturbate in the next 10 years.

#3 Now, I am NOT saying you need to be domineering/盛氣凌人/專橫, be a control freak and sacrifice her interests to maintain relationships.

No, what I am saying is that most young boys nowadays automatically DEVALUE /貶值 themselves, sacrifice their ambitions,

compromise their missions to hopefully “make a girl like them/fvck them/make her happy”…

AND this is exactly why she doesn’t like you/respect you/want to fvck you.

#4 If you want more women, stop being so accommodating/通融/樂於助人 to her needs, and start believing that you are the fvcking valuable prize that women must win over.

Stop compromising 妥協 your opinion/interests/wants/passions/needs just to avoid arguments or keep peace with your gf/potential girl because harmony NEVER creates tension i.e. attraction.

(If you don’t know how to do it, go to www.manthefvckup.com/7dayfreecourse to study it. It’s FREE.)

Rmb: Women would rather fvck a disagreeable guy who makes her pissed/sad/emotional than an agreeable loser who is like a United Nations peacemaker 和事佬.

So be self-sufficient/自給自足 and NEVER need her to stay in your life than HER wanting you to stay in her life.

When I say that “you should never stay in a relationship where the woman doesn’t respect you”, a lot of men support me.

They even say that “yeah, women should automatically respect men because of the fact that you’re being a man.”

Well, that’s not something I agree.

#1 Respect is NOT a default thing. Respect has to be EARNED by others.

Whether you get respect really depends on whether you are WORTHY of that.

If you are not a high value man who is conquering life like a king,

if you haven’t taken action to change your pathetic situations,

if you just whine like a little bitching beta loser,

you don’t deserve shit.

The world is a harsh place brother, nature is not just beautiful & peaceful…

Nature is also cruel, filled with killings and you gotta train yourself to be a STRONG motherfvcker to survive and pass on your genes – whether it’s physically, mentally, emotionally, financially or sexually.

#2 Maybe now you wanna complain to me now that “No way! I am born to be special, I deserve more money, women, sex, health for FREE!”

Bullshit, stop that immature entitlement kid thinking!

Everyone thinks they are special, which in a sense is true, BUT the world doesn’t owe you any things you want. You have to exchange VALUE to get shit.

#3 So if you’re like 99% of the world, you are NOT born rich/handsome/physically attractive and you don’t easily get women/money.

That’s fine.

But to leave that unsuccessful life that you don’t like, to rise above and become the TOp 1%,

you have to work for it, you have to train yourself, and you have to fight your way to DESERVE it.

The harsh truth is that women would RATHER share part of a strong Alpha with other women THAN to have FULL 100% ATTENTION of a weak Beta.

Stop complaining women don’t want you, stop complaining women don’t respect you automatically.

Train yourself to be an Alpha in terms of your thinking and doing, grow the fvck up, and earn your respect in the world.

#4 Finally, everything I said above does NOT mean you should let women or others disrespect you, even when you are not where you want now.

If women aren’t respect you, it’s your own damn fault because you CHOSE to stay in such toxic relationship.

What you should do is to set boundaries on what behaviors you accept or not, and LEAVE if that bitch ignores that.

(Go to www.manthefvckup.com/7dayfreecourse and get our 7-day free course if you don’t know how to do so.)

#5 So the whole point is:

Have basic self-respect on what behaviors/conditions you accept/not,

set & enforce boundaries with women,

leave if ppl violate that,

and if your life isn’t giving what you want (whether it’s respect, women or money), take action to EARN it and become DESERVING.

Done.