分類: 溝女

Hey bro, if you have gone through our 7-day free course,

you should have a much deeper understanding on female psychology and why their behaviors are often difficult to understand for men.

(If you haven’t and if you want to know more about how to get them, go to www.manthefvckup.com/7dayfreecourse to study it. It’s FREE.)

So if you were a woman, how would you choose a man as a mating partner?

#1 Well, given the fact that women are often the physically weaker sex and they have a psychological need to feel safe,

the BEST MAN must have 1) good genes and 2) providing abilities to raise the child, and 3) she has enough sexual attractiveness to get this ideal man.

So in short, every woman’s mating strategy is to have a hot enough Alpha guy to fuck her, and a good enough Beta guy to provide for her, and ideally these qualities exist in the same man.

#2 You probably have heard of stories where a RICH OLD man’s wife cheat on him with some hot broke guy who fixes her car, but never want to have anything serious with him, right?

This is the typical example that women will fvck an Alpha but stay with a rich Beta.

#3 Of course Alpha isn’t just about physical hotness, it also includes his attitude and mindset when interacting with women

E.g. his not-give-a-fvck I don’t care what you think attitude, his non-exclusive non-needy attitude, his shameless about sex, his “I go get what I want” attitude etc.

#4 So what does this mean to you bro, especially when you are working hard on your mission?

Well, 1) Please don’t become that stable, loyal, rich doctor/businessman, get married with the wrong woman and then get divorced and have half of your assets STOLEN!

2) Yes, go create massive value and get fvcking rich.

But also level up your sexual appeal and attractiveness, upgrade your mindsets & attitudes towards women, increase your options at all times, adopt a “I deserve hot girls in my life” attitude, play the field non-exclusively to know the truths about women etc.

If you develop BOTH short term and long term sexual attractiveness as a man, you will have the highest chance to get MOST quality women in your life.

That’s how you win the game of sexual dynamics.

Yesterday, we talked about WHY using the 1-2-many strategy instead of the default 1-2-1 beta strategy to get girls will help you slowly get rid of your 真命天女症.

Today, let’s address one of the most common fears that “同時溝幾條女唔道德 and girls will not like that”.

#1 Bro, if you do think that “dating multiple girls is unethical or disrespectful”,

you need to understand how society has succeeded to brainwash most natural alpha men who are sexual selectors TO GIVE UP THEIR INHERENT POWER, become a weak submissive BETA to give women the choice as sexual selectors!

You have to understand:

Men are evolutionarily hardwired to spread his seeds and it is natural for us to WANT to fvck girls after girls.

If you are feeling BAD about this sexual urge,

it only means you have been heavily brainwashed by ideas imposed by authorities on you when you didn’t have the intelligence & maturity to distinguish truths and falsehoods!

#2 ALSO, If you feel shameful that “seeing more than 1 girl at a time”, go OBSERVE what women are doing everyday!

Women naturally adopt a 1-2-many mating strategy and all hot girls are ALWAYS trying to get as much male attention as possible.

They are always messaging different guys, meeting different guys, dating different guys and maybe even fvcking different guys.

Are you still so naive to believe that “My faithfulness to one girl will make me stand out and ultimately make woman want to fvck me?”

#3 Finally, 同時溝幾條女 is the ONLY way to shape you as an attractive Alpha.

One, you must have a lot of non-committed sexual relationships with women in order to truly know the pretty/ugly truths about women, your preferences of women, and to find & keep the loyal quality ones.

Second, 同時溝幾條女 will give you a lot of social proof as if you were a sexy celebrity.

This will help you get even more girls as other girls will want to compete for your attention.

#4 So brother, stop reinforcing those toxic shame installed by society on you!

Alphas are dangerous powerful men who can change things, so society and the authorities will always do things to control that.

Betas are those weak submissive say-yes agreeable dudes who can’t do shit, so they are always encouraged by the mainstream.

Pick a side today because that will be your destiny tomorrow.

(If you want to know more about the psychology of women and how to get them, go to www.manthefvckup.com/7dayfreecourse to study it. It’s FREE.)

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Last week we talked about the importance of needing a woman less than she needs you and why your faithfulness won’t generate her sexual desire to you.

Today, let’s talk about one of the most toxic beliefs all beta males have: The she-is-my-only-true-love syndrome真命天女症.

#1 Most guys try to attract girls on a 1-2-1 basis.

They use ALL of their time/effort/energy/resources to loyally and patiently WAIT for the PERFECT condition to meet his targeted girl,

WAIT for the PERFECT timing to “know each other well enough”,

and WAIT for the PERFECT day to “finally confess his undying love to her” as if his attraction is something shameful not to be admitted in Day 1.  

Sometimes this means a few weeks, but many even waits for YEARS to finally have the courage to get the girl.

So if you are using this 1-2-1 strategy to get girls, you have 真命天女症 because

1) You mistakenly think she is the ONLY compatible woman in the world

2) You mistakenly believe that all these WAITING means romance to her

3) You mistakenly waste your fucking life & sacrifice yourself to hopefully one day the girl “will finally see your goodness” and choose you after she has fucked enough Alphas.

Such default beta way of getting girls is due to DECADES of social conditioning from your parents, TV programs + movies since the 80s, song lyrics, church and religion, Alpha shaming by the newspaper & magazines, and the political correct governmental structure.

#2 So if you truly want to get rid of your Beta mindset, how could you do so?

The super easy behavioral change you must adopt is to change your 1-2-1 strategy to 1-2-many strategy.

Meaning: Instead of fishing with just one fish hook and line, you cast a fucking net like a fisherman and SELECT only the best quality fishes and throw away those who don’t qualify!

#3 Now, as a default beta, you probably have concerns like “What if she thinks I am a 狗公？What if she doesn’t like the fact that I have lots of women? What if she wants my complete devotion to her?”

Well, apart from the obvious fact that “What girls say they want usually don’t reflect what they want in behaviors”, there are of course ways to handle those situations which is out of scope in this video.

(If you want to know more skills on how to do so, go to www.manthefvckup.com/7dayfreecourse to study it. It’s FREE.)

＃4 The point is: Once a woman has become your ONLY SOURCE of sex/intimacy/love, her attraction towards you will definitely decrease because she realizes that she has no more competition from other women anymore.

If you want a woman to be attracted to you for decades, she MUST conclude from your behaviors that “You ALWAYS have other options,

OR You always have the ability to walk away IF she doesn’t behave well and GET other girls.”

Again, women always want a guy that other women want.

If you still maintain a 1-2-1 mindset or strategy to get girls, you are DOOMED to compete with other 80% of majority beta males for the bottom 20% of ugly bitches.

So tell me, what strategy are you using to get girls from today’s onwards?

How’s your Chinese New Year so far?

Are you being a “good husband/bf” accompanying your wife/gf to greet some unknown relatives that you don’t care about to get some red packet money?

Well, it’s totally fine to say hi, pretend to be interested in them and get maybe $20 from strangers,

but are you doing sth that you don’t want but succumb to your girl’s will just to please her?

More importantly, do you sincerely believe that being loyal to girls will create attraction that eventually makes her want to fvck you?

#1 Most beta men believe that their faithfulness/loyalty to women can somehow exchange her sexual desire and love.

While it might true that women will “like” your unconditional love & attention, loyalty/faith will NEVER create sexual desire or urge for her to fvck you.

Why do women actually NOT want her to be your only choice of sexual options?

It is because women ALWAYS want a man that other women want

AND your fvcking absolute faithfulness SCREAMS that you actually lack other sexual options

AND you chose her only because you couldn’t get other girls! (which is true to over 80% of any current relationships)

So what should you do to be more attractive if you are single now or are already in a relationship?

#2 If you are starting out, you should ALWAYS aim to have multiple (5-10 min.) potential women to flirt, date and fvck.

You need this to build your confidence around women so that eventually you can truly believe that “I am the man who always has options with women.”

Until you do that and stop being so loyal at the beginning, women can almost always sense that you are a desperate beta who lacks options.

#3 If you are in a relationship and your gf is treating you like shit and not giving you sex on demand, break the fvck up.

I guarantee you that you have fvcked things up along the way and have been tolerating her bullshit behaviors,

that’s why you are being treated like a fvcking slave holding bags for her and getting annoying complains all day long.

It’s almost impossible to change that if you keep giving her UNDESERVING ATTENTION, so drop her and get a better girl.

#4 The point of today is that: Faithfulness to women will NOT create genuine sexual desire for her to fvck you.

Your faithfulness MUST be earned.

And it must be earned through a PROCESS,

where you date & sleep with a ton of women, KEEP only the best of the best, and from that reality, you maybe CHOOSE to be faithful to a few of them.

And even if ultimately you choose to be faithful to one (monogamous),

you MUST always have a solid mindset that “Even if I choose to be with her for now, I always have other women I could date & fvck at any time.”

That’s the key to HER attraction to you.

So be faithful to your own self, NOT her.

Give her attention ONLY IF she deserves it.

(If you want to know more skills on how to do so, go to www.manthefvckup.com/7dayfreecourse to study it. It’s FREE.)

Whether you are single now or in a long term relationship, brother, do you feel that you need women/your gf/your wife MORE THAN they need you?

If your answer is anything similar to “I can’t live without her”, you are a fvcking beta. Period.

I know it is harsh and I know you don’t want to hear this,

but the truth is that in whatever relationships you have with women, you can NEVER be the one who NEEDS her more than she needs you.

Why?

Because #1 Women NEVER want a man who NEEDS her to survive, to thrive, or to be happy.

A man who can’t function or succeed without women is a WEAK BETA male that will be ELIMINATED by harsh realities and women don’t want weak pussies.

You need her more than she needs you?

She will conclude that you are a needy rubbish that she never want to fvck.

#2 No matter what women SAY in their mouth, it is a feminine women’s NATURE to want a more DOMINANT masculine guy to lead the relationship.

A man who takes major control is the man her biology is programmed to fvck.

If your behaviors signal “I need you baby, please approve me”, you are doomed to maturbate in the next 10 years.

#3 Now, I am NOT saying you need to be domineering/盛氣凌人/專橫, be a control freak and sacrifice her interests to maintain relationships.

No, what I am saying is that most young boys nowadays automatically DEVALUE /貶值 themselves, sacrifice their ambitions,

compromise their missions to hopefully “make a girl like them/fvck them/make her happy”…

AND this is exactly why she doesn’t like you/respect you/want to fvck you.

#4 If you want more women, stop being so accommodating/通融/樂於助人 to her needs, and start believing that you are the fvcking valuable prize that women must win over.

Stop compromising 妥協 your opinion/interests/wants/passions/needs just to avoid arguments or keep peace with your gf/potential girl because harmony NEVER creates tension i.e. attraction.

(If you don’t know how to do it, go to www.manthefvckup.com/7dayfreecourse to study it. It’s FREE.)

Rmb: Women would rather fvck a disagreeable guy who makes her pissed/sad/emotional than an agreeable loser who is like a United Nations peacemaker 和事佬.

So be self-sufficient/自給自足 and NEVER need her to stay in your life than HER wanting you to stay in her life.

When I say that “you should never stay in a relationship where the woman doesn’t respect you”, a lot of men support me.

They even say that “yeah, women should automatically respect men because of the fact that you’re being a man.”

Well, that’s not something I agree.

#1 Respect is NOT a default thing. Respect has to be EARNED by others.

Whether you get respect really depends on whether you are WORTHY of that.

If you are not a high value man who is conquering life like a king,

if you haven’t taken action to change your pathetic situations,

if you just whine like a little bitching beta loser,

you don’t deserve shit.

The world is a harsh place brother, nature is not just beautiful & peaceful…

Nature is also cruel, filled with killings and you gotta train yourself to be a STRONG motherfvcker to survive and pass on your genes – whether it’s physically, mentally, emotionally, financially or sexually.

#2 Maybe now you wanna complain to me now that “No way! I am born to be special, I deserve more money, women, sex, health for FREE!”

Bullshit, stop that immature entitlement kid thinking!

Everyone thinks they are special, which in a sense is true, BUT the world doesn’t owe you any things you want. You have to exchange VALUE to get shit.

#3 So if you’re like 99% of the world, you are NOT born rich/handsome/physically attractive and you don’t easily get women/money.

That’s fine.

But to leave that unsuccessful life that you don’t like, to rise above and become the TOp 1%,

you have to work for it, you have to train yourself, and you have to fight your way to DESERVE it.

The harsh truth is that women would RATHER share part of a strong Alpha with other women THAN to have FULL 100% ATTENTION of a weak Beta.

Stop complaining women don’t want you, stop complaining women don’t respect you automatically.

Train yourself to be an Alpha in terms of your thinking and doing, grow the fvck up, and earn your respect in the world.

#4 Finally, everything I said above does NOT mean you should let women or others disrespect you, even when you are not where you want now.

If women aren’t respect you, it’s your own damn fault because you CHOSE to stay in such toxic relationship.

What you should do is to set boundaries on what behaviors you accept or not, and LEAVE if that bitch ignores that.

(Go to www.manthefvckup.com/7dayfreecourse and get our 7-day free course if you don’t know how to do so.)

#5 So the whole point is:

Have basic self-respect on what behaviors/conditions you accept/not,

set & enforce boundaries with women,

leave if ppl violate that,

and if your life isn’t giving what you want (whether it’s respect, women or money), take action to EARN it and become DESERVING.

Done.

Hey bro, you know that we all are heavily impacted by our environment, so we will become like those friends whom we hangout with most.

Assuming you have eliminated those negative crabs who pull you down, how could we build friendships once we have found a quality human being?

Well, let me recommend you reading <The Like Switch> by Dr Jack Schafer,

who is a former FBI agent who specializes in behavior analysis and recruiting spies.

He uses this “The Friendship Formula” that Friendship = Proximity + Frequency + Duration + Intensity.

Proximity = distance between you and others, it means the EXPOSURE to each other.  (whether it’s shared space or shared context)

Frequency = # of contacts you two have over time;

Duration = length of time you two spend with each other

Intensity = How strongly you are able to satisfy another person’s psychological and/or physical needs through the use of verbal/ nonverbal behaviors
-> i.e. how much impact such interaction have on you both

Knowing this now, how can we make friends?

Step #1 You gotta spend more TIME doing stuff with them because 25% of forming a friendship is BEING THERE with them!

Step #2 Once you have been spending time , slowly increase the frequency & duration to increase another 50%

Step #3 After those TIME, you can slowly add INTENSITY (i.e. go from light causal pleasant topics to deeper personal emotional topics)

When you take it slowly and if the other person wants to go there, you two will become good friends who know each other.

Of course if it is in a social group setting and you’re new to the group, you want to slowly test the water and feel out what social norms of particular group.

After you have been there for a few times and established your place, then you can start to take some risks slowly to express more of yourself.

As long as you are NOT a energy drainer or freerider, and you actually GIVE VALUE to other people, people will love to have you as their friends!