Bro, you have watched so many MTFU videos, and by now you should understand that attracting women is both a short term game and a long term game.
Bro, you have watched so many MTFU videos, and by now you should understand that attracting women is both a short term game and a long term game.
In the short term, you should develop that fun, carefree, nonchalant, passionate, adventurous guy who enjoys his life and welcomes women to hang out.
In the long term, you should be a man who keeps challenging himself in all areas of life, dominating your path/mission, and living with purpose.
When you become that, you will become a man she not only wants to fvck, but also a man she wants to love.
Below are 3 tactical ways that make you irresistible as a man in years to come:
#1 Never compromise your sex & love life
Especially with women, if a woman feels that “you only choose her because you can’t get others so you settle for her”, she is going to fvcking resent you!
So you should only go after women you genuinely like, who genuinely inspires you outside and inside the bedroom. When you know what you want and you take action to claim it, that’s always an attractive trait in a man.
#2 Stop hating “bad players” and start peeling off your “nice guys masks”
If you still hate those “assholes”women keep falling in love with, you will never LEARN the psychological reasons WHY they succeed but you fail.
Instead of seeing things in good/bad, try to see things in predictable/ dull/ boring and to exciting/fun/surprises.
Even though a girl wants a good stable reliable man who loves her in the long term…
biologically…they just can’t help but fvck a guy who is fun, exciting, non-needy sexual man who is comfortable with his desires.
You want to be the Ultimate Alpha? Then you gotta be a man she doesn’t just want to love, but she also wants to fuck!
#3 Never base your self-esteem/self-worth on girls, never!
A masculine man always validate himself from the inside, while a feminine woman always validate herself from the outside.
The day when you base your self-worth on “how much money you make/ how many girls you can penetrate/ how big your muscles are”, is the day when you fall into the endless loop of insecurity/consumerism where you always need to “get more stuff” in order to feel secure.
All those external things are like eating desserts, it’s good to have once for a while and there is NO NEED for you to live in a monk…
…but apart from enjoying these desserts of life, you gotta also have the WISDOM to know that a meaningful fulfilling life is MORE THAN just physical material pleasures…
If you follow the above 3 principles,
you will become that beast who can travels between the physical and spiritual realm of life and enjoy BOTH RICHES in the outside and in the inside. 😀