Bro, you know that a man should always be the selector and you should always subtly screen if a girl can meet your standards.
Because when you do that, girls will sense that you are testing her, and she will see you as a man of higher value.
No girls want a guy who just fvcks every woman.
So if she feels that you are actually highly selective about girls PERSONALITIES but she might have a chance with you, she will chase you!
Now, how can we attract girls who are not just sexy but actually good for us? Below are 3 lists of qualities you should have:
List #1 is called the long term GF qualities list.
These are the ideal women that you want to keep because they are good for you:
E.g. Honest, Loygal, caring, nurturing, supportive, loving, dependable, understanding, emotional health
These are the non-crazy girls that won’t create too much drama in your life.
List #2 is called the Fvck No list!
These are the repulsive women that will harm you in many ways:
E.g. Emotionally cold, mean, too flirtatious, manipulative sociopaths, addictions, disloyalty, boring with no hobbies, no vision/goals, have no gfs but only guy friends!!!, self-abuse or punish people
These are very DANGEROUS people you should never be in contact with, they are going to make your life miserable.
Finally, list #3 is the FUN girl qualities list.
They are more short term for fun and they will make you feel alive:
E.g. adventurous, sexual, independent, open-minded, non-judgemental, spontaneous, carefree, confident, feminine, express her emotions, comfortable with her sexualitiy, dare to be hot and sexy etc.
Realistically, it is very HARD to have a girl that have only #1,3 with no #2.
And honestly, you should first look for #2 to avoid, #3 for short term during the first few months, and you can only truly know if a girl possess #1 after maybe 1-2 years.
So never make any major life decision within the first 2 years!
FBI uses 2 years to observe a person before they decide to hire them.
So focus on avoiding the dangerous girls, choose girls who display short term fun, and keep those who have the good girlfriend qualities!