I don’t know about you, but I don’t really enjoy spending hours everyday going out to pick up girls for the sake of picking up them,
or swiping through dating apps, or even worse spending thousands of dollars on drinks, dinners, gifts to hope that I can get laid.
I am not saying attracting girls don’t require certain effort or skills,
but what I am saying is that if you think game is the ONLY missing piece of the girls puzzle,
you might be disappointed once you have invested years of trying to find new game techniques.
#1 Why?
It is because in order to be an attractive man for both short term and long term mating, you gotta also get your shit together and build yourself and your life to be attractive, apart from understanding game.
I have said many times before, a masculine man is like a train going from one place to another while a feminine woman is like a passenger that comes and go.
Your main focus should always be dominating your own path, creating a fun passionate lifestyle for yourself, taking care of yourself first, enjoying being single and being social with people…
AND THEN, during your path, you may invite those girls you are interested to meet to JOIN YOUR ADVENTURE with total autonomy for them to come and go.
#2 The men who have the easiest dating lives, the ones who put in least amount of effort and sometimes may not even know there’s GAME… they operate exactly like that.
It might take more investment, but they understand that a man’s sexual value peaks much later than women and they don’t RUSH the dating process.
They understand that they should enjoy the casual fun in their 20s, gain more experience in their 30s, and then maybe start to look for something else in 40s.
They take their time to build themselves as a shiny prize, so that they will slowly be inundated by options as they mature and build up their own empire.
#3 The point is: You need to BOTH increase your attractiveness in the short term AND the long term.
In the short term, of course you want to stay fit, go out have fun and socialize, and learn how women operate in their mating strategies.
But in the long term, you should start investing in yourself,
shape yourself to be a strong powerful valuable human being, build your attractive lifestyle so that your future self doesn’t always need to go out to game girls.
If you could have a longer perspective towards women and attraction, you will thank yourself 5 years later for watching today’s video 😉