Remember I said that we need to create OBSTACLES in order for girls to fall in love with us?
Well today, let me teach you 2 simple words that create similar effects on girls, so that you can inject UNCERTAINTIES into whatever you say.
You can use this to compliment girls, make future plans with her, or even tell her you like her WITHOUT ever sounding needy or weird!
#1 So the method is this:
In whatever you say, try to add conditional words such as 如果 or 或者 in your sentences.
E.g. Normally “I really like you, let’s hang out!”
-> Conditional “Well, if I start to like you, I would totally invite you to this bar for special cocktails, they serve the best drinks I have ever tried.”
E.g. Normally “You are so sweet, can I get your number please?”
-> Conditional “You seem like a cool girl so far, maybe you should whatsapp me later so we can continue this fun vibe.”
E.g. Normally “You are so hot, come back to my place.”
-> Conditional “If you keep leaving a good impression on me, I might invite you to try my latest dessert recipe and watch a movie together.”
#2 Bro, can you see that by using conditional words,
you are secretly creating a SMALL GAP between you and her, but that gap is not too difficult that she will want to overcome?
What I have shared above is like superpowers, they will set up a frame that makes girls want to chase you because you are PLAYFULLY CHALLENGING her to keep the flirtatious vibe going.
#3 Tbh, women also use such technique on men for centuries:
E.g. “If you buy me a gift, I might go on a second date with you.”
“If you keep being a nice good boy listening to my emotional shit, maybe you will get a kiss on the cheek on our 75th date”
“ If you marry me and give me half of your assets, I might allow you to fuck me after 2 years”
Well, I say fvck that! Why not use their game back on them? :p