Before you attract any women in your life, you need to have a good foundation as an attractive male.
Women are like icing on a cake, she can’t be your focus on your life, thus you need to have 3 CORE PIECES before you can bring her in.
3 Ways to be an attractive male while single:
#1 Spend time with friends that UPLIFT you, not pulling you down.
GOOD friends are those help you EXPAND your true self and potential, encourage your growth, even if they don’t have the same belief systems.
BAD friends are those who keep doing things that KEEP YOU SMALL, you feel collapsed and judged, and they discourage you from pursuing your path.
So make it a priority to hang out with these inspiring friends every month. Bros are best because there’s no sexual interest between you all.
#2 Meet Your Emotional Needs First
If you want to get a girl because you are unhappy, incomplete, boring, lonely, you are going to FVCK UP both of you. Shit life + shit life = shittiest life
Just like parents should put oxygen masks on themselves before helping their kids, you should save yourself before you attempt save the world/women.
So you must have fun, enjoy your life, take care of yourself and make yourself happy & fulfilling first IF you want a healthy relationship with women!
#3 Heal Your Emotional Wounds From Childhood
We all have emotional wounds from our childhood. If you don’t go back to explore these unconcious patterns, they are going to fvck up your next r/p because intimacy triggers our emotions the most.
So if you have r/p problems with your parents e.g. hatred, enmeshment (neediness with them), parents suffocating you…etc.
the family issues WILL pass on to the next generation with your woman!
Explore these with your trusted coach, therapist or men’s’ group where you are in a safe environment to discuss these deep personal issues.