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Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，激發男士雄性力量，感受更多愛與激情！

 

Do you want to know the best positions for deeper penetration so that your girl feel truly satisfied?

 

Most men just go for the same missionary or doggy style, but if you want deeper penetrations, there are many positions you might try.

 

If you want to learn more, like this video, comment below and let me know!

Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，激發男士雄性力量，感受更多愛與激情！

 

How to arouse women with words & subtle touches?

 

Do you know how to spark ST and make them feel desired and thus desire you?

 

Mistake: Most men approach women just to have “good conversations” or just talk for the sake of talking.

 

Truth:  Attracting women = play with sexual tension

 

ST = make her FEEL special chemistry, so it doesn’t really matter what you say

 

#1 Make Extra Eye Contact

– Look into her eyes for extra 2-3 seconds

– Trick: when she talks, you agree while you’re thinking “Your pussy is mine.”

– When you feel aroused, she will feel aroused EVEN when you two talk about normal stuff

 

#2 Touch Her Slightly More

E.g. An extra long handshake, a 1-sec longer on her shoulder, play with her hair/jewelry/clothes

 

#3 Increase Physical Proximity

– Increase degree of body language facing each other, and increase closeness from several feet to just a foot

 

Bonus #4  Move conversations from platonic, to sexual innuendos

E.g. You love German sausages? OMG,  you are such a naughty girl, I can’t stay too close with you.

Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，激發男士雄性力量，感受更多愛與激情！

 

How do you know if your woman isn’t FAKING her orgasm?

 

How can you make sure she is enjoying and loving sex with you?

 

What will REALLY happen when a woman orgasm that is NOT like AV?

 

#1 Honestly, the easiest way to really know is to ASK your partner whether she is having a real orgasm and loving it.

 

If she feels SAFE with you, she will tell you the TRUTH of your performance.

 

Most women only fake orgasms because they don’t know how to let you know and communicate their pleasure/dissatisfaction with you.

 

So if you make her feel SAFE and NON-JUDGEMENTAL, and you two have deep TRUST with each other, she will tell you.

 

#2 Uncontrollable contractions that happen inside her.

 

You’ll feel PULSATIONS震動 in her vagina, her deep muscle tissues, and her abdomen.

 

Every woman is different, so you always need to OBSERVE her natural reactions.

 

E.g. If you are just stimulating her clit for a min and she cums, most likely she is faking it like AV girls.

 

Stop watching so much AV because many sex inside give both men/women UNREALISTIC expectations of what SEX is like.

 

These “OMG OMG”are mostly just acting, a scripted scenario, fake like a wrestling show.

 

Every actor/actress inside is magnifying their facial expressions and expereinces.

 

#3 Other real signs include having goosebumps over her body, deep heavy breathing, a sigh of relief after a good full body orgasm,

 

or she feels that her body can’t move and need to rest for a while,

 

OR when she asks you “DON”T STOP… don’t stop…” because that means she is close to having an orgasm.

Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，激發男士雄性力量，感受更多愛與激情！

 

Have you ever had a good conversations with girls, gotten her #, but she stopped responding via Whatsapp?

 

Are you frustrated that you spend so much time playing these text games but only to find out that these girls will never go out with you?

 

Do you know the best way to make sure these # are valid to work?

 

#1 One of the most common mistakes men make when meeting women is that they focus TOO MUCH into getting a girl’s #,

 

wasting hours on the phone to attract her or get to know her, and then try to get her out UNTIL she suddenly ghosts.

 

How do you solve this problem?

 

Easy, you must do some PRE-work to make sure it is a GOOD # before you get her #.

 

#2 新識嘅女仔唔覆你Whatsapp／唔肯同你之後約會最大嘅原因，（就算佢當時肯俾電話你），

 

並唔係因為你嘅text game唔夠勁，而係因為你喺錯嘅時候攞佢電話。

 

意思係：喺你未有足夠attraction同rapport之前你就咁快抄佢牌，

 

就算條女肯俾真嘅contact你，你都只係攞咗一個毫無意義嘅＃。

 

因為有時女人喺唔想對你咁rude或者求其同你講有BF，所以只係求其俾個電話你去等你唔好再煩佢。

 

咁點樣先可以確保自己抄個靚牌，確保條女之後會覆你呢？Easy…

 

＃3 第一，喺你落佢＃之前，請你確保你哋之間有鞏固嘅attraction。

 

你哋之間喺必須有flirting，你一定要同佢有身體接觸，

 

你一定要同佢已經有互相揶揄嘅teasing，並且大家一早已經喺having fun，having a good time，

 

（而唔係純粹萍水相逢傾兩句偈），咁樣你先可以令佢feel到同你之間有啲特別嘅感覺。

 

If there’s no attraction between you two and you get her #, it’s just a waste of time.

 

Truth: If you can’t attract her in real person with all your senses, it’s 20X harder to attract her relying on your phone.

 

#4 第二，喺你落佢＃之前，你亦都需要建立某程度上嘅信任同rapport。

 

因為雖然attraction喺第一步，

 

但係如果純粹只有attraction但係無任何連繫，或者至少輕輕嘅了解，大家有少少common嘅嘢，女仔喺好難justify自己去鐘意你。

 

咁所以你哋至少要大概知道大家喺邊度嚟，大家做啲咩，大家鐘意啲咩，

 

有少少connnection，有少少commonalities，

 

你哋之後whatsapp傾計或者約佢出嚟先至會更make sense／容易。

 

＃5 咁做完呢啲pre work之後，你點樣攞佢電話呢？Easy, I have 2 favorite ways…

 

Method #1 喺你哋傾計嘅情感高潮位／emotional high point嘅時候，

 

你就可以同佢講：

 

『喂，我差唔多夠鐘要 [做一啲high value嘅嘢 e.g. call a client), 但係我哋keep in touch或者遲啲出嚟 [Low Pressure meeting e.g. 飲咖啡／食甜品]啦，你有冇帶電話？』

 

有 -> 『好呀，咁我哋交換contact啦。』

 

無 -> 『Ok，我有帶。』，跟住隊自己電話去佢心口，佢好自然就會入自己電話。

 

When it’s done, continue the conversation for just a minute or two and then end the conversation.

 

＃6 Even better way,

 

Method #2 喺你哋傾計嘅情感高潮位／emotional high point嘅時候，

 

你就可以同佢講：

 

『哈哈，係咩？咁你遲啲whatsapp我囉，或者我哋可以[Low Pressure meeting/ invite her to your fun social event]嘅。』

 

跟住你收聲，等佢講話好，跟住你俾自己電話佢。

 

Benefits: You are screening away who are not interested and only letting girls who are interested to CONTACT YOU first.

 

If she wants to involve in your life,

 

she will text you and you can invite her out for some FUN social events that you WILL be doing anyways.

 

This is one of the most powerful ways to screen out time wasting girls and only focus on quality leads.

 

#7 Conclusion: When you have built attraction + emotional connection when you get her #, you will be so much more likely succeed in getting her out!

Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊，激發男士雄性力量，感受更多愛與激情！

 

Do you know that infidelity means different things to different people?

 

Have you ever discussed with your gf/spouse whether an emotional attachment with a close friend without anything physical is considered cheating?

 

Do you know that psychologists have spent YEARS studying the science of infidelity and have discovered some shocking truths?

 

Today, let me share a few interesting research studies about cheating and see if they apply to your own relationship.

 

#1 你要留意對方嘅歲數。

 

偷食／不忠對唔同人都會有唔同定義，有啲人覺得拖下手仔就係committed relationship，

 

但係有啲人就一定要『開口講明話大家唔可以有其他男女朋友』先至叫做正式開始relationship。

 

但係其中一個觀察對方有冇偷食嘅動機，就係睇下佢嘅歲數。

 

因為喺2014年，研究人員發現男士通常喺39或者49歲嘅時候特別容易有婚外情，

 

因為佢哋想透過另一段感情搵到另一種意義。

 

而女人亦都一樣，每逢佢哋接近30歲／40歲／50歲，

 

佢哋都會突然之間想喺人生之中搵到更多意義，

 

並且喺度諗『可能改變一下自己嘅relationship會令自己更加開心』。

 

＃2 第二樣你要留意嘅：就係對方嘅情感／Emotions。

 

喺2013年進化心理學出版嘅研究發現：肉體上嘅出軌 i.e. 自己嘅女人被其他冇感情嘅男人屌，係會令男士更加憔悴；

 

但係相反，情感精神上嘅出軌，但係自己嘅男人冇同另一個女人上床，喺會令女士更加憔悴。

 

意思即係話：一個男人就算同另一個女人冇性關係，但係如果佢成日同其他女人whatsapp或者hang out得好密嘅話，

 

就算大家之間冇搞野，女性都會覺得嗰個女人對自己感情有威脅，亦都會覺得男人背叛咗自己。

 

調返轉，女士們有時可能覺得自己同其他男人上床只係為咗玩下或者想有個人留意自己， 但係就算佢同對方完全冇感情連繫，大部分男士都會覺得自己被背叛／戴綠帽。

 

咁所以各位聽緊嘅男士：如果你留意到你條女同某個男人係咁text，以『朋友嘅身份』係咁同對方好親密，過分信賴佢某一個異性gay best friend…

 

咁你都要小心啲，因為好可能佢嘅心已經離開咗你！

 

#3 最後第三樣你要留意嘅：就係對方以前嘅歷史紀錄。

 

睇2017年Archives of Sexual Behavior嘅研究，研究人員發現如果你喺第一段關係曾經不忠cheat過，呢啲人就會比起冇cheat過嘅人有三倍更大機會會偷情！

 

另一樣嘢就係，如果你曾經被對方cheat過，你自己都會有兩倍更大機會將來偷食。

 

咁所以如果你條女以前係cheat過，甚至係因為你而cheat咗自己個ex男朋友，佢將來都會好大機會為另一個男人而cheat你！

 

So that’s why I never recommend you BEING the guy who makes a girl CHEAT on her bf,

 

because even when you do it successfully and even get her,

 

you are just attracting the WRONG person with questionable morality/ethics/character to stay with you.

 

Of course you can just fvck her and dump her like many fvckboys will do,

 

ultimately whether you do it is up to your personal character.  

Have you wondered WHEN and how to get girls’ number?

 

Are you worried whether you are being a leader and having 主導權 when you interact with girls？

 

How do you get rid of your 毒L habits and become the MAN you dream yourself to be?

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HI MAN SIR, YOU CAN CALL ME L.

如題, 返工識左個女仔好合眼缘，份工返左冇幾耐姐(同個女仔第3日一齊返)，冇同個女仔build大多rapport，

 

但今日用左＂勇敢開口同女仔傾計的4個心法＂，成功拎到個女仔contact，

 

情况如下: 我就放工個時 1.我無eye contact甘行過佢

2.突然停底讚下佢(佢今日業績幾好)

 

3.同佢講:抄個靚牌ah~遲日出尼食下飯

 

4.佢呆左陣之後微笑問我要邊種contact先

 

5.我話你接受到個種程度個種 <–(因為我都覺拎tel.no快左d，先識左個3日，而且想respect返佢作為女仔既矜持 —>  但後尾發現唔對路！

我竟然將主導權比左佢!冇左男人既feel!!! 想問下尼點佢有冇扣我分)

 

6.佢寫左佢snapchat比我(工作時手機不能更身)

 

7.我拎左之後走之後轉身話: 我今晚揾你 (微笑)

 

8.但其實我諗住今晚拎唔記得左 , 完全唔揾佢:’)    (要用man sir你教個招😈)

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=> Biggest Mistake: You haven’t qualified her before you get her contact.

 

She hasn’t earned any shit from you and you give access to her. So it’s a bit too player feel when you said “抄個靚牌ah~遲日出尼食下飯”.

 

Has she even earned the right to dine with you?

 

If you don’t screen and qualify herself and invite her out TOO EARLY on, she won’t cherish the opportunity to spend 1-2-1 time with you.

 

And stop thinking“抄牌”is what you must do.

 

When you have the right attraction and connection, it’s so common that girls will ask you for your contacts to further connect with you.

 

I don’t want to discourage you from taking action, but you GOTTA be more patient to make her feel that SHE CAN”T wait to meet you, see you, date you.

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講左個人狀况先: 我係肥仔(有肚腩 但不是超肥) 面有好多暗瘡，樣子不討好。但剪左類左man sir你既haircut，有少少陽光feel。

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=》 You gotta get rid of your 暗瘡 as much as possible because CLEANIESS/ APPEARANCE  does matter.

 

You don’t want to make people feel that you are a lazy dirty dude who doesn’t take time for self-care.

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最近開始減緊肥 ，每日放工返家都有做5-6組workout，持续左1 week till now，但個人除左打機冇乜hobby。

 

=》Bro, MTFU. You are BETTER than just playing video games!

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因為睇MAN D 片，前係不折不扣死毒L，但依加有意識去dominate own path ( MAN 可否教下路)。只係冇從入手， 諗住遲下跑下步，create hobby先!

個女仔A0  我都係

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=》The first thing you need to do is to EXPLORE more hobbies that make you feel excited, alive, fun and can’t wait to do it weekly. If you don’t have an active lifestyle, it’s hard to inspire women to follow you.

E.g. do some sports/workout training, try yoga/dancing, explore places, read books to cultivate your mindset, attend classes that help your future

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Questions:

1.  想問下我拎女仔contact比主導權佢選擇是錯誤嗎?
2.  若果個女仔聽日都唔揾我，我可以主動揾佢嗎?(約她食飯)
3.  若果個女仔聽日都唔揾我，是否代表我不夠attractive?
4.  毒撚可以如何 dominate own path ?(具體上)

pps.我未睇wtsapp game d video  今晚補下習先:) THX MAN!!!

補充下，我返工個陣好專心做自己既tasks，做自己業績，冇成日揾佢，因為我成日記住man你講男人有自己既路要行!!

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#1 There’s no right or wrong to get girls contact or give her yours.

 

Personally, I just LOVE to give my contacts girls out after I’ve qualified them and let them find me.

 

Yes you may never hear from her, but what you sub-communicate is that you DON”T need her and you won’t chase her just like every pussy beta male dogs…

 

And if they DO find you, it means she is interested and a qualified girl, you are in a higher position with control to move things forward.

 

#2 I won’t give my valuable time or an opportunity to eat with me SO EASILY to girls who are NOT interested or qualified.

 

#3 Maybe you aren’t attractive, maybe you are attractive but you did things wrong, maybe she is just unavailable or blind.

 

Stop blaming yourself so easily because 60-70% of the interaction depends on HER situation while you can control only 30-40%.

 

#4 You dominate your path by having a LIFE PURPOSE that is BIGGER than yourself and LARGER than just fucking more women.

 

When you are spending your major time accomplishing your MISSION that matters to you,

 

and being a light, playful, fun, challenging, adventurous, sexual leader during social time with girls, you are the fucking man that every woman craves.

Have you ever worried if your girlfriend is flirting with other guys?

 

Are you considering to break up with your current GF because you suspect she is cheating with another guy behind you?

 

If this happened, have you later tried to be an asshole 周圍玩女 just to 填補心靈空虛, but only to find that you’re just numbing your deep pain and don’t know what to do in future relationships?

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Hi man神😂廢話吾多講，我以前有一個女朋友分左手差吾多兩年，我個時知道佢有同一個男仔有曖昧的WhatsApp，我知道左之後問佢，佢話佢男仔系阿哥(代號A)冇野，但係晚晚傾電話中間A都有打黎。

 

我要面，緊係話冇野啦。之後越嚟越嚴重，我自己都開始淡，我諗以後會更好，我自己一直放吾底綠帽呢個問題，之後用我鐘意第二個呢個原因分手，分左手大家都好。

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=> #1 Understand, if you are not being HONEST in a relationship

 

i.e. “我要面，緊係話冇野啦 while you actually don’t like it”, this relationship will NOT work.

 

A partner, if she is a good one, can’t understand you if you are not courageous enough to be vulnerable and let her know your feelings.

 

Many people fail in relationships because both parties are NOT being HONEST with each other and they try to PRETEND everything is fine when its’ not.

 

Thus, little problems grow until they accumulate so big that they explode one day and eat both of you alive.

 

Yes, you want to develop your emotional strength and fortitude to handle shit in life.

 

But before you train yourself and reach that level, you two gotta be honest with each other so that the GOOD PARTNERS can help each other.

 

So next time when you are in a relationship and you are NOT cool with something, you need to speak to your partner.

 

Tell her your fears with honesty and see if she is a good person who tries to understand you and help you overcome that.  

 

#2 Reflect on WHY she wants to 曖昧 with another guy.

 

Is it because you become complacent after getting her and don’t give her enough attention at all?

 

Is that because you act too NEEDY that overwhelm her too much?

 

OR is it just because she is emotionally immature and she just wants as much attention from guys she wants and feel worthy as a girl?

 

If she is, then that means you need to LEARN how to distinguish what kinds of girls are READY for a relationship.

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過咗一個禮拜左右，佢就同A一齊左，我以為自己可以放低，但系呢兩年始終放吾㡳，佢都拍過兩次拖 (Ps佢而家有仔)

 

我自己就周圍玩女去填補空虛，但系自己仍然好愛佢好想再黎過，每晚睇返D相都喊，我同佢分左手後，佢好憎我成日po IG鬧我。

 

呢兩個月開始成班朋友傾計，佢都有答爹傾左兩句咁，佢有個好朋友話大家個心仲有大家，但係大家一起吾講要面，Man神我應該點我想重新開始，thx 多謝你D片教既野🙏 By TT

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＃1 If you want to heal from breakups, you MUST cut all communications with your ex at least for a period of time e.g. 1 year

 

I bet during these 2 years, you are constantly trying to see her UPDATES and how she is going.

 

That’s why when you see her having fun and having other guys, while you are being single and lonely, you feel miserable and you miss the “good times” with her.

 

Thus, you gotta put away the old pics/videos that trigger the PAIN and memories between you and her. She has already moved on, it’s time for you to MTFU, love yourself more, and move on for yourself!

 

#2 You don’t heal your wounds by using other women to fill you, you heal yourself by fulfilling yourself.

 

If you rely on other girls/friends to approve your self-worth,

 

you are always at the mercy of low self esteem when people don’t approve/love you anymore.

 

The biggest fear of humans are the fear of not being good enough and the fear of not being loved.

 

To start with, you must learn to accept and love yourself unconditionally FIRST, which is the cornerstone of a solid healthy self-esteem.

 

If you want to start again, learn to love yourself, take care about yourself, do fun things for yourself FIRST while you’re single.

 

That’s the FOUNDATION for you to start any new positive healthy relationships that  can magnify the positive human experience with a girl.

Have you ever got rejected by a girl who tells you that she has a bf?

 

Have you ever tried to push on because you suspect it’s a lie to shittest you?

 

Do you want to know how to make a girl want to hang out with you and become your gf?

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Hi Manson, I have talked to this girl for 2 weeks or so and she has already rejected me by telling me she has a boyfriend.

 

However, I didn’t stop talking to her because I know that it was a lie and that she probably said that because she wasn’t comfortable with me enough yet.

 

In fact now she would bring me to parties, but she is really vague about hanging out and stuff.

 

So what can I do to get her and make her more determined to say yes hanging out with me. Thanks my name is Chris btw

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＃1 Define what’s “hanging out”, do you mean you want to pak tor with her like a bf so early on and make her recognize you as a bf?

 

If yes, you’re doing these “dates” wrong because you’re trying to prove to her as a good bf material.

 

You’re focusing on proving how awesome you are instead of focusing on just having FUN for yourself,

 

then share FUN and good emotions with her and let her feel attraction to you naturally.

 

#2 The reason she is vague is because she feels too much PRESSURE from your behaviors.

 

You are trying so hard to be her BF and even if she is attracted to you,

 

she isn’t comfortable to show you to the world as a BF yet because you haven’t found out her needs yet.

 

Do you know WTF is she looking for?

 

Has she felt a strong sexual desire towards you yet that she wants to fuck you?

 

Even if she wants to fuck you, does she even want a bf?

 

Thus, can you see forcing a BF agenda on her is what repels her?

 

#3 Unclear on how you met her and how you talk to her for 2 weeks.

 

It is crucial on how you meet her because the CONTEXT often influences how she sees you as a person.

 

E.g. A warm approach/ an introduction from others/ meeting you because you are the leader of a group  is often easier than cold approach because girls already see you as “higher status”and thus she will have much less resistance/defence when you talk to them.

 

#4 Get a GF process: Establish a sexual intimate relationship first by being light FUN + CHALLENGING guy,

 

by NOT focusing on just one girl at the beginning and having a lot of options,

 

by having a lot of sex, a

 

nd then let her bring up the bf/gf issue with patience.

 

Thus stop worrying about becoming her bf,

 

focus on being an attractive guy who is enjoying life and has a purpose to dominate,

 

and let her worry about becoming your gf out of the options you have!

Have you ever worried about not being able to attract girls richer, more social value, more successful than you?

What do you do if your current social skill isn’t as good as the girl?

Do you feel shameful about your family background that you don’t want to show your authentic true self?

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Hello! Man神，我讀緊書，至今A0。我一直都唔敢溝比自己更有錢、條件更好嘅女仔，試過約女仔去街，但係話題唔多，

 

我見識同社交技巧好弱，亦唔想俾女仔知道自己太多，對自己的家庭背景感到自卑，將自己真實一面顯露出來會更自卑，點先可以克服呢樣野? thanks

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#1 Your current belief system = A value of a person is determined by your income.

 

You think 『賺得多錢先至代表你有價值』, therefore you are INSECURE that your girl is richer/more successful/social than you.

 

You are trying to COMPETE with her.

 

This is a common problem especially for dudes from the PUA cold approach game world.

 

Because your values system, what you stand for in life, what’s your purpose, your ideals, what meaning in life is NEVER determined.

 

You just try to cover things up with PUA tricks, lines, routines.

 

Right now, you are trying to earn more money/learn game to FEED YOUR EGO. -> i.e. your EGO that needs women/others to like you in order for you to feel worthy and good enough. E.g. show pics to your guy friends how hot your gfs are so that you feel like “I am the man”

 

In short, you feel 自卑 because you are NOT born in a rich, successful, socialable family.  

 

That’s why you don’t feel VALUABLE as a human being in society’s value system.

 

That’s why you feel SHAMEFUL about your background and personal history.

 

Here’s what I invite you to do:

 

Instead of buying into this society’s value that you need to be rich, successful, famous, sociable in order to be WORTHY,

 

OR the PUA’s value that you must fuck hundreds of girls and have thousands of 女兵 in order to prove that you are successful with women… which is only a small % of the world population,

 

think and determine YOUR OWN VALUES SYSTEM!

 

Do you know why you feel TORN right now?

 

It’s because you’re trying to FIT IN into society’s values 高富帥 or PUA’s values 食女無數.

 

You are shirking your worldview into what is desirable in the context of nightclub or the general media propaganda of 有女有樓有車有家庭。

 

You are trying to give up your own values to get pussy, to get success, to get recognized.

 

Thus, if people value money/pussy MORE THAN being a good person, of course you are always losing their game.

 

***So think about YOUR OWN VALUES SYSTEM.***

 

Values are relative, be careful of what values system you’re adopting.

 

E.g. In nightclubs, hot girls always have higher value than rich men! 

 

So think deeply what values you stand for, what’s important to you in life and what’s the MEANING of your life is.

 

=> Having a Passion  

 

Life Purpose will give you MEANING in life, it GROUNDS you so that you don’t  feel lost.

 

Until you have your own values system and life purpose, you will always feel insecure/inferior about yourself and you don’t feel worthy/good enough for certain girls.

 

For ref: Watch “賺得少, 真係因為你對社會毫無貢獻？”